reasons why we don't seem to work anymore:
1. our relationship depended on different things - that now has simply disappeared.
you - God/companionship
me - trust
2. we want different things
me - i want to be able to talk to you about the world, about my feelings, about my thoughts and have you respond to me in a way that i feel that its okay for me to feel this way, rather than for me to feel that i always 'overthink' things.
you - you want a simple life, you prefer easy communication - predictable if you like.
3. we are different people.
you - simple, easy, unquestioning, closed, alone,
me - open, questioning, i need people. i need to feel loved. i am complicated.
4. we respond differently to bad situations.
you - want to run away, let it simmer.
me - rather would settle it, talk it out (whether in anger or not)
enough said really.
6. we have different lives
we live far, we have only our communication over the internet/phone, you are not good at communicating.
thus, relationship = no communication whatsoever
i want to be able to stand with you and have nothing to hide, at all.
but we don't always get what we want do we.. ?